1.
Two good friends had a quarrel one day...
Two good friends had a quarrel one day, and one of them slapped
another. The man felt pain, but said nothing and wrote on the sand:
“Today my best friend slapped me.”
Two friends continued walking and found an oasis. They decided to
swim in a wellspring and suddenly the one who was slapped, started to
sink, but his friend saved him.
When he regained consciousness, he wrote on the stone: “Today my best friend saved my life.”
The other friend, who slapped and saved his friend’s life, asked him:
– When I hurt you, you wrote on the sand and now you are writing on the stone. Why?
His friend said:
– When someone hurts us, we should write it on the sand, so that the
wind could erase it. But when someone does something good for us, we
must engrave it on the stone, so that the wind could not erase it.
2.
One businessman was in debt...
One businessman was in debt and couldn’t figure out a way out of it.
Creditors were pressing him. Suppliers were demanding for a payment. He
was sitting on a bench in the park with his head down, thinking what
could save the company from bankruptcy. Suddenly, an old man appeared in
front of him.
– I see that something is bothering you, – he said.
After listening to the businessman, the old man said:
– I think I can help you.
He asked the businessman, what his name was, wrote him a check and said:
– Take this money. We will meet here exactly in one year, and you will be able to return it to me at that time.
After that, he turned around and disappeared just as suddenly as he appeared.
The businessman saw a check in his hands for an amount of 500 thousand
dollars, signed by John Rockefeller, one of the richest people in the
world at that time!
‘I could end all of my problems in no time!’ – He thought. But instead,
the businessman decided to put the check into his safe. Only one thought
about its existence gave him strength to find a solution to save his
business.
With the return of his optimism, he concluded profitable deals. During a
couple of months he got out of debt and started to earn money again.
Exactly one year later, he returned to the park with the same check. At
the agreed time the old man appeared again. And at the moment, when the
businessman wanted to return the check and to share his story of
success, a nurse ran up and grabbed the old man.
– I’m so glad, I caught him! – She exclaimed. – I hope he wasn’t
bothering you. He always runs away from the house and tells he is John
Rockefeller.
The businessman was bemused. During the whole year he was spinning and
building a business, buying and selling, convinced that he had half a
million dollars. And suddenly he understood that it’s not the money,
real or imaginary, that turned his life up. It was his new confidence
and belief that gave him strength to achieve everything that he had now.
3.
Happy Dervish...
Once, a shah was riding in his palanquin through the town, looking through the window at the scurrying people. Suddenly, he saw a lonely dervish sitting in the middle of the crowd, who was smiling and looking happy about something. The dervish was dressed poorly, and except the saucer for hand-outs and a road script he had nothing else besides him. The shah road past him and soon forgot what he saw.
After a few days, the shah had to go the same way
again, where he saw the same dervish again, completely happy, dozing
with blissfully closed eyes.
The next day, shah chose the same way on purpose,
to see if the dervish will be in his place and again the image was the
same. Intrigued, shah was going the same way almost every day and every
time he found the dervish in the same spirit.
Finally, unable to stand it anymore, shah came out
from the palanquin and addressed the imperturbable dervish with these
words, “Why are you always smiling? Almost every day I see you here and
it seems that you are absolutely happy.”
“Exactly, my master.” said the dervish with a smile.
Shah was surprised and asked, “Why are you happy? Do you have any money?”
“I don’t have anything, my master. Maybe during the day a little bit will fall in for food.”
“Do you have a home or a family?”
“Neither this and nor that. I wander the world as the wind.”
“Maybe then, you have good heath?”
“Absolutely not, my master, from the cold of the night my bones ace often and almost all of my teeth have fallen out.”
“What makes you so happy then? Tell me. Maybe your
recipe for happiness will be useful to me. I have everything, but I’m
unhappy.”
“God never sends more challenges for one person
that he can’t handle. And burdens a person only with those
circumstances, which at that moment, are most useful for his
development. The circumstances in which the person is – is the place for
spiritualization. I accept that the best thing for me now is what I am,
where I am and what is happening with me. I accept it with gratitude
and a smile, if necessary with resistance and patience, and if possible,
I try to understand what God is trying to say to me with it and in
which direction should I move with my development. The realization of it
doesn’t make me absolutely happy, but I have a clear horizon opening in
front of me, free from the rainy curtains and filled with the sunny
light of awareness.”
4.
Jim worked at a radio station all his life...
Jim worked at a radio station all his life. He was a well-known and
famous radio show host. All of his friends and colleges knew him by one
feature: if he’s on-air, he is always wearing a suit and a tie. They
laughed at him: ‘No one ever sees you, why do you dress like that?’, but
he always turned that into a joke.
One day Jim was invited to appear on the TV. There was a show
dedicated to the oldest radio employees. For the first time the people,
who only knew him by his voice, would see him. Before the recording of
the show, the director came to Jim and asked:
– Usually you arrive on time, but today you are 10 minutes late. It’s not horrible, but I’m still interested, why?
– You see, – Jim answered, – at the last moment when I was already
dressed up, I noticed that I don’t have new socks. For the first time I
was invited to the television, and I thought that simply wearing clean
sock is not enough. It needs to be in new socks. So I needed to go to
the store for socks.
– But why do you need new socks? – The director was surprised. – You
could have come without the socks, because we will be filming you only
in close-up, over the waist.
– You see, to be spotless on-air, I need to feel myself spotless in
everything, starting with the shirt and finishing with the pen in my
pocket. And if my socks have holes in them, or my shoes are dirty, I’m
not spotless anymore.
5.
One student asked his wise teacher...
One student asked his wise teacher, what is more important for a
person: is it outer or inner beauty? In response to that the teacher
asked his student:
– Tell me, if you needed to buy a house, but you only had enough
money for a beautiful outside, but a comfortless house, or a poor house,
but warm and reliable. What would you choose?
– I would rather choose a simple outside but convenient inside house.
– But what if a vain person was buying a house, proud of his
position, but not having enough resource to buy a beautiful and cosy
house?- asked the teacher again.
– Surely, he would prefer the outer beauty of the house, – answered the student.
– I think you are right, – said the teacher and added: – but
regardless of your choice, each of you would understand that you are
missing beauty or comfort and would seek for it.
– So it means that outer and inner beauty is essentially equivalent and valuable only in harmony? – asked Zhao Zeng.
– You can say that, – answered the teacher smiling, – but I thought
foremost that when possessing a half, you always need to seek for a
whole, not losing what you already have. Because a half will always be
only a half, despite of how great it would be.
6.
Once upon a time there was a Wave...
Once upon a time there was a Wave. She liked to frolic with the wind. She liked to caress the rocks on the shore.
Once she got into a strange bay. There was a Cliff. He stood in the
middle of the bay. The Wave became friends with Cliff. They could talk
for hours. They spent all time together.
Once the Wave realized that she loved the Cliff. He also liked funny and careless Wave. But he told her:
— No, you can‘t love me. I am a stone. I am a Cliff. I don‘t know how to love. I will break you.
But the Wave did not want to back down. She tried to hug Cliff and
was scattered by thousands of gold spray. But Wave tried to do this
again. She forced herself just to communicate with Cliff. She carefully
took off shells, sticking on him. But Cliff said:
— I am strong. I am a stone. I don‘t need your care.
Once again the Wave rushed towards him. Once again the sprays glistened on the wind…
The years passed. The Wave still loved the Cliff. He pretended not
noticing this. She tried to approach him – and still has been broken.
One morning the Wave disappeared. The Cliff woke up and did not see
her nearby. But he forced himself not to think about it. Days went by,
but she did not appear.
Several years have passed, and the Wave came back. She has changed a
lot. She knew a lot more about life now. She was no longer so
thoughtless and careless. But she still loved the Cliff. And he … he
pretended that it does not matter that she came back, because he was a
stone. How could he afford a weakness for the Wave?
Many years have passed. The Wave still talked with the Cliff, but
there were no more intimate conversations and long night vigils. The
Cliff was getting older. Water undermined it. And the Wave was
travelling, learning new countries and cities, new people. Somehow,
returning home, she realized that she no longer thought of the Cliff.
The Cliff also understood that. And he also understood that could not
live without her, without her stories about the cities and foreign
shores, without her twitter about everything. One day the Cliff told
her:
– Yes, I am a stone. Yes, I am a Cliff. But I cannot live without you.
And he fell into the waves. And the Wave… she just kissed him saying goodbye.
7.
Once upon a time, there was an unfortunate poor man...
Once upon a time, there was an unfortunate poor man. His home was also
very poor – a small and empty house, where mice made their nests and
spiders made their webs.
People tried to avoid coming into his house – why should they go into
those poor ruins? And the poor man thought that poverty is the reason of
his misfortunes – his eternal destiny.
So once, the poor man met a wizard and complained to him about his
poverty and miserable life. The wizard felt sorry for the poor man and
gave him an unprecedented vase. And said:
– This is a magical vase that will save you from poverty.
The poor man took the vase and wanted to sell it at first and then spend
the money on alcohol, as usual, besides, why would he need such a
beautiful thing? But then he started admiring the vase and couldn’t take
it to the market. He brought the vase home, put it on the table and
started admiring it.
– It’s not right for such a beautiful thing to be empty, – the poor man
thought. So he picked some wildflowers and put them into the vase.
It became even more beautiful.
– Not good, – the poor man though again, – that such a beautiful thing stands next to a spider web.
So the poor man started cleaning his house from spider webs, sweeping
out cockroaches and mice, cleaning the dust, washing the floor and the
walls, whitening the ceiling.
And it became clear that his house wasn’t poor, but rather warm and
cosy. And the poor man wasn’t a poor man anymore, but a hard working
host, who had no time for the thoughts about misfortune.
8.
Late in the evening I was walking in the park...
Late
in the evening I was walking in the park. Suddenly I heard scream
coming from behind bushes. I stopped to listen and understood that a
woman was attacked. I heard sounds of fighting and muttering. For
several moments I was hesitating, should I get involved?
I panicked. I was frightened for my own safety. Maybe it is better to
call the police? Then I realized that a woman‘s voice becomes weaker,
so I knew I have to act quickly. Can I run away from this? Finally I
decided that I have to help this unknown woman even if I am risking my
own life. I felt some strange transformation inside, the moral and
physical strength, so I ran behind the bushes. I pulled the attacker off
the girl. We felt to the ground and grappled for several minutes. Then
the assailant jumped up and ran away.
Breathing hard I slowly came up to the girl, who was cowering behind a
tree. It was dark, so I could not see her face clearly. I felt, that
she is very frightened, so I talked to her from a distance: „You are
safe now, it‘s ok, the man had run away“. After a few moments I heard
her words with a great amazement in her voice: „Dad, is that you?” And
then I realized that the girl was my youngest daughter.
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